Hello, Dear Readers. This is something that I posted to Mastodon a few days ago. I'm not normally one for philosophy, but this came to mind after reading a post on Reddit. "I don't really consider myself to be an introvert, as in 'the type who hates being around people, who needs alone time after doing so, etc. But I don't mind being alone, either. I don't really understand the concept of loneliness beyond its definition. It makes sense for someone who lost a partner after many decades, a dandy who suddenly finds himself cut off from society, older people who may not be able to use the Internet, etc. But I don't understand it from younger generations who can easily go online and talk to people via text, audio, and even video. I thought it was because I am blind, and it's a visual experience, but my peers complain so much about it that it was one of the reasons for my leaving the r/blind subreddit! And these weren't people who recently went blind either, as that would make sense, but also included those, like me, who have never seen. This may also be linked with my lack of understanding of boredom, as there are always all sorts of things that one could do to occupy one's time. As long as I have something to read, listen to, or do, I'm fine.
As an addendum, since I have seen a lot of this as well, I have absolutely no concept of anxiety, depression, low self-worth/esteem, caring what others think of me, craving approval from others, etc. That is as foreign as colours to me. Nor am I jealous of what people have. So maybe, that's part of it. I like to interact with people online, but I am equally happy talking to a bot like Perplexity. I just like receiving answers and having conversations. usually, I find talking to people online just as fulfilling as having someone in the room, and I have several friends who are very dear to me whom I've only technically met online. Granted, it would be nice to have a partner with whom I could go out and do things, and even be romantic and sexual, and to that end, it definitely helps to meet in person. But being single isn't the end of life or happiness.
Is there anyone else out there like me?"
Now for something a bit more fun. I haven't done one of these in awhile and I really like them in general, so here are several for August. All were taken from the following community.
https://thefridayfive.dreamwidth.org/The Friday Five for 29 August 2025: Trash Questions
These questions were written by spiralsheep.
1. Does where you live have regular doorstep rubbish collections or do you have to take your trash somewhere else?
We leave the rubbish bins by the kerb and they empty them for us.
2. Do you separate recycling? What sort of stuff gets recycled from your household?
Yes. We have different days for different things. One day, it's boxes and paper goods, and another, it's cans and bottles.
Then, we have the days for regular things.
3. Do you take things you don't need to charity shops, or give them away online, or sell them secondhand, or ...?
Mom gives things away. I would sell mine.
4. Do you pick up litter in your local area, from streets or trails or play areas or parks? Have you ever found anything interesting discarded or lost in a public space?
I'm totally blind, so no.
5. Are there "repair cafés" near you to help mend fixable items? Have you ever been helped by a community repair service or volunteered for one? Do you do any other kind of upcycling?
There may be such places around me, but I have no idea. I've never gone to one.
The Friday Five for 15 August 2025
This week's questions were suggested by [livejournal.com profile] aforkintheroad.
1. What is your favorite experience in your life so far?
I honestly have no idea.
2. What motivates you to keep going every day?
I just look forward to each day and what it will bring. I like to learn things, to read things, and just to enjoy life in general.
3. Where do you want to go in life? What do you want to accomplish?
I don't really have any major life's goals. I just enjoy things as they come. I suppose my ultimate goal would be to experience life's pleasures. But I would like to be settled with a living space, and it would be nice if I could find a partner, and learn Italian. I also want to have the full gamut of suits, from morning wear, to informal lounge/sack suits, to black and white tie, to informal evening wear.
4. Is there anything that you regret? Do you try to change it?
Yes. Even though I went to university and received a Bachelor's degree, I do not have an adequate education by my own standards i.e. nineteenth century. I have tried to remedy this but I need more motivation. For now, I am working on language study, music theory, etc. And I plan to start reading more good books (not modern rot) during the next year.
5. What is your most cherished gift you have received? Why do you cherish it so much?
The chance for a wonderful life, given to me by Mom when she adopted me as an infant.
The Friday Five for 1 August 2025
This week's questions were suggested by [livejournal.com profile] angelich.
1. What is something you collect? Why?
Pre-1960's opera recordings. I want to listen to them, and it's great to find several versions of the same work.
2. If you could make one ice cream flavor, what would the ingredients be and what would be the name?
Lemon and cream! I would call it lemon bliss. It would be like a creamsicle in that there would be swirls of lemon and vanilla throughout.
3. What can't you go a day without?
Aside from the obvious (oxygen, water, food), I would say using my computer. It's how I read, write, listen to music, documentaries, plays, operas, etc. buy things, and communicate.
4. What position do you sleep in? *back, right side, left side, stomach . . . etc.*
I'm a side sleeper. Either side is fine. Oddly enough, while I am perfectly fine lying on my back awake, if I fall asleep while doing so, I always wake myself because I suppose I stop breathing!
5. What is your typical morning routine before work/school?
I don't go to work or school, nor do I have a routine. The closest I come is getting up, having breakfast, and then going outside if the weather is nice, and going on the Internet. Usually, I do my Italian, voice, and music theory lessons in the afternoon. I take my shower and brush my teeth at night.